Saturday, March 31, 2012

Weekend Reflections

Looking Back...

Here's what we talked about this week:



Three Years Ago Today...

Looking Ahead...
The month of April is exciting and busy for us! Sometime this month Joanna will be adding a new member to their family. She is taking off the month from posting. Imagine her not being willing to write words to us while she is in labor! The rest of us have year-end projects and trips and testing to see to, so we decided to scale back.  I guess you could say we're all taking a bit of a break. During April (at least), there will be no Tuesday or Thursday posts. On the other days, you will be seeing more guest posts than usual.

Next Week
I will tell you what I would do to fall in love again and Jessica will share a devotional with us. All of us will let you know how we celebrate Easter which is coming up next Sunday!

Reminder
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Have a blessed week!

Friday, March 30, 2012

How We Involve Our Children in Household Chores

"How do you do it?!" The question homeschool moms are asked all the time. Although it is elusive and not clearly defined, today we will share with you how we do the housework part of  it. Ready for our big secret? We employ our children. 

Yep! We consider child labor laws to be as new of a concept as public education so we throw it all out the window. Just kidding! Sort of. As Tonya says, "I honestly don't know what I would do without my girlies! They are my right hand helpers."

You see, all of us don't just sit at a desk and lead our children in the Pledge of Allegiance and other school activities all day. We have busy lives. Marion helps her husband run a farm and the farm store. Tonya helps her husband run a church and cleans the occasional house to add to the family income as well as the church (which her kids help with, too---what a ministry opportunity!). Jessica takes up the slack while her husband goes back to school, and I do some work from home to help the family income while my husband works long and varied hours.

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Beginning Stages
The key to having children help around the house is to start them young. Wee little ones love being with Mommy, so this is a great time to train them on basic chores. My toddlers have especially loved pulling laundry out of the dryer and emptying the lint catcher. Tonya starts hers out with emptying the trash. The idea is that if a child can take toys out of the toy box, he can put them back in. This seems perfectly logical, but the application gets a little tricky at times! 

Age-Appropriate Chores
We know that age and grade are  just a standardized way to classify unstandardized kids. Different children are ready for different chores at different times. Our job is to plug them into the "team", as I like to call it around our house. We depend a lot on our older children. Jessica's older girls each have a bathroom that they are responsible to clean, can do the dishes alone and help the younger ones hang up clothes when they can't reach the clothes rack. Tonya's oldest can bake and take care of breakfast and supper. Tonya and I depend on our oldest to babysit our youngest children as well. Washing laundry is also on our chore lists for our older girls.


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Even younger kids can be a big help, though. Our three and four-year-olds help clean their rooms and Marion's little ones (ages 7, 5 and 3) clear and set the table and feed the dog. Tonya lets her younger son help out, too. She says, "He knows how to make his bed, clean up his room, empty the trash, set the table, put away silverware, fold laundry, put it away, etc." In our house, if the three-year-old is slow in loading dirty silverware into the dishwasher, his 18-month-old brother will beat him to it!


Motivational Tools
Making work fun is not always possible, but we all pull out our "Mary Poppins" tricks when possible. For Marion, it is a Celtic Christmas CD her girls love all year round. She also uses a timer to let them "race" to get done. On cleaning day, I separate us into "teams" and have each team complete their list and check it off. It's hilarious to see the "boy team". My 18-month-old bumps down the steps on his belly clutching pillow cases to carry to the laundry room to be washed while his brothers carry the rest down.

Chore charts are great for little ones. I have a hard time keeping with them, but I always think they look so fun. Like this one:
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Allowances and financial compensation is a subject of great debate. I do use a pay system for my kids although they realize that some jobs are "just because they're in the family". I don't pay on a strict commission basis---just a set fee based on their age and number of expected chores. However, if a chore is not done they might have to pay me or another sibling to do it. We get paid monthly so we pay our children monthly. If it's a tight month and we can't afford "fun money" for ourselves, they don't get paid either so they see it's a family enterprise not necessarily something we "owe them". Jessica gives her children small rewards from time to time and Marion rewards her girls with a tea party or some other fun activity after they get their work done.


Life Lessons Learned

Although our children help us a lot, the main reason we teach them to work is for their own benefit---not just ours. As Jessica says,

"The small rewards they do receive from time to time are an added benefit to the plain ol' feeling of accomplishment they feel after completing a task, the housekeeping skills they're learning in preparation for keeping their own home one day, and the knowledge that they're doing their part to help the household run smoothly."

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Fun Easter Foods!

Last week we talked about how to decorate our Easter table, so this week were going to figure out some fun Easter foods to put ON that table! Especially if you have kids, these will be fun and different things to do for your Easter dinner. Again...I must confess...these ideas aren't original with me...I found them on Pinterest. Enjoy! And don't forget to celebrate the REAL reason for Easter as you sit down to your beautiful table laden with delicious foods!


Goldfish "Carrots"

Deviled Eggs that look like Easter chicks


Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Mercy There Was Great!


Titus 3:3-7
      For we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another. But after that the kindness and love of God our Saviour toward man appeared, Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost; Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour; That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
Easter is a soul-stirring holiday, at least, for me. Each year at this time my mind reflects on how great is the scope of mercy. Consider how Jesus knew that He was coming to earth to die for the sins of all mankind. Yet, He was willing! In our finite minds we cannot grasp such mercy. Sure we are willing to die for a family member or even those close to us.  For those we don’t even know is another concept or to extend our mercy to those who have treated us despicable is a foreign thought.
Jesus extended mercy to one who treated Him in such like. Consider the High Priest’s servant, Malchus, who was in the group that came to arrest Jesus. He might not have been the one who yanked Jesus roughly. He might not have been the one who tightly bound Jesus’ hands. YET, He was in that same group. Peter, Jesus’ disciple, attempting to provide a show of protection to Jesus drew a sword and sliced off Malchus’ ear. Oh my! How terrible!  Or maybe…Good! That’s great! Responses could have varied on that gloomy night. However, Jesus grasped that ear, gently placing it back upon the side of Malchus’ head. Was it grabbed in anger and slammed against his head? (That was the way they were treating him.) NO! Thousand times, NO! Jesus did it out of love.
          This past Sunday I was sharing some of these thoughts during our Easter program practice.  I questioned the youth on what their reaction would have been….to show kindness in the midst of being treated hatefully. One young man vehemently said, “No way! I couldn’t have shown such kindness.” The human mind responds that way, but with such mercy revealed to us that should cause us to reconsider. This Easter let us consider how we can extend mercy to those who are not deserving. For we are the same—not deserving of such mercy.  YET,
Mercy there was great and grace was free;
Pardon there was multiplied to me;
There my burdened soul found liberty at Calvary.
William R. Newell (1868-1956)

         God’s grace extended to each soul who needs forgiveness is found through the blood that Jesus shed on Calvary. What mercy! What love! What grace! And to think, I am a recipient. How can I not share it with others so they might benefit from this awe-inspiring grace?
-Tonya

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Random Resources

I have some ideas for some posts, but I didn't feel like I had the time to do justice to them right now. So, you get some random resources! Yay! =) I do hope these links will be enjoyable, at least, and maybe even helpful.

For the Techie Kid



If you have an iPad, iPod, iPhone, smartphone, etc., click on the link above to take you to a list of apps for your kiddos that should make waiting rooms, long lines, and car rides more bearable for them...and for you! Some of these apps are free. Most of them look pretty cool! (I'll take the free ones, thanks.)

For a Well-planned Summer of Fun Memories


Here's a great idea to keep your summer organized and filled with family fun. Instructions are given for how to print it out and tweak it to fit your needs. 

Classics, for Free!


How about some free classic audio books? Yes, please! These books are from the public domain and downloadable in several formats. I'm thinking that my kids would enjoy listening to these while they do their chores!

I won't be posting next Tuesday, so here are a few ideas for the upcoming Easter holiday:


Whether your child is homeschooled or not they could benefit by this Unit Study on Easter. I haven't used the Unit Studies that I have purchased yet, but I've heard a lot of good things about them and parents say that their children really enjoy them. It really is what is says...Download 'N Go! You just need an internet connection and a printer. The price is very reasonable, too!

Adorable yumminess

Aren't they just too cute to eat? Almost? No? Yeah...I'd eat 'em too. These little bird's nests are great for a pretty Easter treat. 

Lovely Easter Centerpieces

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The bunny centerpiece is just beautiful and oh-so-"springy", but the cross and empty tomb is so full of meaning. I wish I could find the original post about the photo on the right. It doesn't look too difficult, though, so maybe by using some tips from the link at marthastewart.com I could figure it out.

So there you are! Go have some fun!






Monday, March 26, 2012

Guest Post: Four Tips To Improve Your Listening Skills

Since March is International Listening Awareness Month (you didn't know that?), author Karen Jordan has submitted a helpful post for us women. These tips will be great for your marriage and parenting as well as your relationship with other women. Karen appears due to my connection with Kathy Carlton Willis Communications, a ministry to connect Christian authors with Christian readers.



Four Tips To Improve Your Listening Skills
By Karen Jordan
 “Are you listening to me?” Has someone ever asked you that question? Or maybe that thought pierced your heart and mind, as you felt the sting of someone else ignoring or rejecting you?
Consider these four ways to improve your listening skills.
  1. Resolve to be quick to listen. Many times, people who come to us for help, just need for us to listen. James 1:19 offers this advice, "Understand this … You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry" (NLT).   
  2.  Decide to be available. Jesus gives us an example of a wise counselor who made Himself available to listen. “The apostles returned to Jesus from their ministry tour and told him all they had done and taught” (Matt. 6:30).  
  3.  Desire a discerning heart. Not only does Jesus listen, He discerned the needs of others. When His disciples came to Him after their ministry tour, Jesus observes their need for solitude and rest: “Let’s go off by ourselves to a quiet place and rest awhile” (ibid.).   
  4.  Choose to be quiet. Jesus also taught His disciples the importance of being quiet. In Matthew 11:15, Jesus asks his disciples, "Are you listening to me? Really listening? (MSG)  
At times our failure to listen before responding can provoke a negative, emotional response from our loved ones or friends, who may need our help. In fact, Proverbs 18:13 warns us, "Answering before listening is both stupid and rude" (MSG).
What can we offer others with our response, after we listen to their needs?
  • Grace, not criticism or judgment. Romans 2:4 reminds us, "Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?" (NLT)
  • Companionship. We must encourage others to be dependent upon Jesus, not co-dependent upon us. Jesus promised His followers, "I'll be with you … day after day after day, right up to the end of this age" (Matt. 28:20 MSG). 
So, the next time someone comes to you for help, I hope you ask yourself this question first: “Are you listening … Really listening?” (Matt. 11:15)
Karen Jordan is best known for telling the stories that matter most. She has multiple writing credits and trains other writers as well. Contact her for speaking events, writing assignments, and interviews at kj@karenjordan.net or visit www.karenjordan.net.

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Weekend Reflections

Looking Back...

Here's what we talked about this week:

We also had a giveaway for the Wholesome Comfort e-book. The winner is:
 Hannah (joyfilledjem@) 
Hannah should have received an e-mail from me already.
If you did not win, you can get your own copy here at a 25% discount by using the following code:

Code: CHERISH25
Expires: 3/26/12

Three Years Ago Today...
Looking Ahead...
Next week, you will read posts from Jessica and Joanna and a devotional by Tonya. Guest blogger, Karen Jordan will help us improve our listening skills. We will also share how we involve our kids in household chores.

Have a blessed week!

Friday, March 23, 2012

Godly Women's Magazine Alternative

I have told you before how modern women's magazines make me mad. I'm all for free speech, but just because they can publish it doesn't mean I have to read it. So, I usually don't. That is a personal choice, of course. You are welcome to do what you want. However, I want to show you that there are other options out there.

Fellow homeschoolers will remember TEACH magazine dreamed up by Lorrie Flem. This is one subscription I always wanted,  but I never got around to signing up. Then, I quit hearing about it. After spending time feeling guilty that I hadn't subscribed and therefore the magazine had folded, (yes, I have moments of thinking of myself as more important than I am!) I discovered that they had merely changed its name.

The new and improved magazine is no longer just for homeschooling moms but for all women. It is now called Eternal Encouragement.

When I received my copy, I was encouraged. All photos were pictures of real, non-airbrushed women in modest clothing. However, the best part was the articles. They actually have something to say and are certainly a dose of encouragement!

The format is a full-color, glossy magazine. No stapled together computer paper....this magazine is professionally done. :-) I also love the fact that it is a book size instead of the 8 1/2 x 11 of most magazines. That means I can stick it in my purse to read when I'm out waiting somewhere.

Of course, they also have a digital subscription for those that prefer to read magazines on their computer or mobile device. I'm not quite there yet. Every subscription also receives access to the EE Etc. web magazine that is published 8 times a year. It has the same type of articles, just extra for those who can't get enough of Eternal Encouragement magazine and want more.

That's Lorrie with a copy of Eternal Encouragement!
As a Gabby Mom, I want to encourage you to subscribe. Your dollars will go to a valid, growing ministry rather than a dubious group of advertisers. You will close the back cover feeling motivated to live closer to God rather than inadequate because you don't have the right clothes or body shape.

And, you won't have to worry about your boys getting a glimpse of the cover, if you know what I mean!

Disclaimer: I received a free copy of the magazine for review purposes (after I had already purchased my own!) and will receive no other compensation either for my review or for any subscriptions as a result of my review.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

3 Ways to Dress Your Easter Table

With Easter fast approaching, I thought it might be good to give us some ideas on how to "dress" our Easter tables this year. These are NOT original ideas with me, but they are ones I have found that I want to pass on to you! If you are like me, you are always looking for a unique idea for table settings. Especially on an Holiday, I like to do something extra special to set the mood. If you don't have the exact items these place setting require, you can always just use it as an idea starter! Sometimes looking at other ideas gives me a jump start on planning my own design.

Eggs in a Basket style

Fun with Daffodils

Eggs in a Nest
Start thinking now about your Easter table! It will save that "last minute stress" when your scrambling for ideas! :0)


Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Of Life and Lanes

I reach the Yield sign and brake to check for oncoming traffic. He comes fast and furious and my slowing is not quick enough for him. The car zooms past with a blaring horn. I follow him onto the ramp and watch his obscene gesture to me as he ignores speed limit laws and races ahead.

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I could react in anger. Mirror his hair-trigger rage and join his game. I refrain. Not because of great restraint as much as resignation to the familiarity. I've been here before. Too many times to count.

 Riding along in the driver's seat when something cuts me off and changes my course. Someone misunderstands. Cutting words and intentional snubs as they race ahead, never stopping to see if any damage has been done. Prey hunted by my own self-condemning thoughts and a captive behind the prison bars of my own unrealistic expectations.

Life happens to us much like traffic flow. There is debris in the road to swerve around at a moment's notice. Other drivers crowd us to the roadside and go on their merry way. Sometimes accidents occur. Sometimes we are the ones at fault.

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I've noticed that in life, as in driving, the biggest dangers are often the smallest things. The internal things. Simultaneously driving and sending a text or passing a sippy cup  to a backseat passenger or swatting at the spider that materializes on the steering wheel. The everyday things that can change a destiny and snuff out a life.

I don't want distractions to snuff out the life I have been given. To steal hours from my children or love from my husband. I want to look forward and lean into life. Not at breakneck speed or a constant eye on the rear view mirror.

 I want to use the interstate when necessary, but make most of my days a meandering journey on back country roads. Where the breeze blows through the windows as we sing along to our favorite song on the radio. Where the joy of taking a drive with those I love doesn't get lost in the urgency of arriving at my destination.

Ah! The destination. Arrive we will, but when we turn in the keys will we have made the most of the lanes we've been given? Or will we have left cars in our wake, damaged and broken? Passengers in pain from our reckless pace?

I reach the Yield sign and brake to check for oncoming traffic. He comes fast and furious and my slowing is not quick enough for him. The car zooms past with a blaring horn. I follow him as he ignores speed limit laws and races ahead.

I wave and smile as he hurries. Who wants to arrive first anyway?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Creamy Casseroles

If you don't like creamy, yummy, melt-in-your-mouth goodness, this post isn't for you. If you do, and, better yet, if you love to get that goodness quickly and easily, read on!

I thought I'd share two of my favorite recipes with you today. Actually, it's one recipe, tweaked a little to make two different dishes. The first is a favorite with my kiddos and the second is always a hit with the adults. Both are super easy and fairly quick to fix.

Unfortunately, I don't have any photos. :(

Creamy Chicken Casserole
4-5 large, boneless, skinless chicken breasts*
1 8oz. cream cheese, softened
1 can of cream of chicken soup
1/2-3/4 cup sour cream (add until as creamy as you'd like it)

Topping:
1 sleeve Ritz crackers, crushed
1 stick butter, melted

Boil chicken breasts until done, then move to a plate to cool. In a separate bowl, mix together cream cheese, cream of chicken soup, and sour cream. Shred chicken or simply tear into bite size pieces and stir into mixture. Spread into an ungreased 9 x 13 baking dish. Sprinkle crushed crackers on top. Drizzle melted butter over the crackers. Bake at 350 for about thirty minutes or until bubbling around the edges. Serves 6-8.

*Note: I have also used a whole bag of frozen chicken tenders and added to the casserole just what I needed, (by eyeballing it :)) and then used the rest of the boiled chicken for a different recipe.


Best Broccoli Casserole
3 boxes of frozen, chopped broccoli, prepared according to package directions
1 8 oz. cream cheese
1 can cream of chicken soup
6-8 oz. velveeta cheese

Topping:
1 sleeve Ritz crackers, crushed
1 stick butter, melted

While broccoli is cooking, heat cream cheese and velveeta in a microwaveable bowl until soft and able to be stirred easily. Add cream of chicken soup and mix well. After draining the broccoli, fold it into the cheese mixture. Spread into an ungreased 9x13 baking dish. Sprinkle crushed crackers on top. Drizzle melted butter over the crackers. Bake at 350 until bubbly around the edges. Serves at least 6-8.

You can actually make either of these casseroles the night before you need them. Take them out of the fridge about an hour before baking. Add the topping just before baking.

Enjoy!

Monday, March 19, 2012

A Few More Weeks of Comfort Food

As winter is coming to a close and we're all looking forward to spring salads, I'm a little reluctant to give up cold weather comfort foods. I've so enjoyed soups, hot cocoa and home-cooked meatloaf over the past few months. While I'm looking forward to planting our garden and enjoying fresh vegetables from it, I hope to fit it a few more of those "comfort food" meals.

I was excited to get to review Kate Tietje's new cookbook, Wholesome Comfort: Whole Foods to Warm and Nourish Your Family. While I am into trying new foods bordering on "health nut" status, I understand that many of you are not. Kate's site, Modern Alternative Mama, will blow you away if you do happen to be into natural health. However, this cookbook is especially for the person who doesn't want to give up some of these foods:

 
  • Beef Stew
  • Roast Turkey
  • Scalloped Potatoes
  • Green Bean Casserole
  • Bread Stuffing
  • Gravy
  • Biscuits
  • Chocolate Fudge
  • Hot Chocolate
Do those recipes sound "weird" to anyone? Not at all! These are just a few of the recipes you probably have already tried and loved, but Kate has made into recipes without processed food and chemicals. Just plain ol' real, whole food manufactured by God.

What I especially liked about this book, since we have food allergies in our home, is the allergen component to the recipes. Each recipe is marked with a symbol to tell you if it is free of gluten, dairy, eggs, etc. All recipes are soy and seafood free, which really makes me happy!

Kate and her team at Modern Alternative Mama have offered to give one of my readers a copy of the e-book. Cookbooks are especially great to have as e-books because it is easy to print recipes and there are links to some tutorials on Kate's site right in the book. This is nice for those of us that need step-by-step help!

Mandatory: If you'd like to win a copy of Wholesome Comfort, visit this page and come back and leave a comment on this post telling which recipe you'd most like to try.

For extra entries:
This giveaway is open to everyone and will close Friday, March 23 at 9 P.M. EST.  Winner will be notified by e-mail and announced on the blog Saturday.


Disclaimer: This post does include my personal affiliate link to Wholesome Comfort. I received a free product for review and no other compensation from Modern Alternative Mama.

Friday, March 16, 2012

How We Homeschool

It's interesting that all of us that contribute here at Cherish the Call that have school age children homeschool them. I really didn't plan it that way, but in reality any mother serious about her calling is responsible for training her children, isn't she? Whether we delegate it out to teachers or do it all ourselves this is imperative with little (and no-so-little) ones!

I love it that we do it in such a variety of ways. Those of us who are released from the mandates of a school system enjoy employing our creativity to get the job done without destroying our children's love of learning.
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Joanna doesn't have to put much effort into her homeschooling efforts yet. In fact, she has another 5 years to decide on educational options. Right now, schooling for her little one consists of Daddy reading books to her belly! :-)

If any of us are experts (which no intelligent homeschooling mother claims to be!), Judy is. She homeschools in one of the states with the most stringent laws while she has blended parenting 7 and homeschooling 5 children into her day for quite a few years (my memory refuses to cooperate on the exact number!). She blogs often about it on her excellent blog.

Tonya uses an online program for her 2 (out of 4) school age children while juggling the responsibilities of a parsonage as well. We started on our journey at the same time, so we try to encourage each other now and then.

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Jessica tells how they homeschool in interesting detail here.

There is so much to say about homeschooling since we all embrace it as a lifestyle. However, I'll mention just structure and curriculum. Jessica aptly covered that in her blog post, so I'll just mention the other three of us.

Structure
While Tonya has to be fairly structured in order to fit the recorded lessons in on their proper days, Judy and I are "on our own" for lesson plans and schedules. Judy has the added responsibility of a baby that still wakes up at night. I was so encouraged by her approach, because I have done it this way myself many days, then felt guilty because it wasn't the proper way to do school:

The one area in which we are NOT structured is a starting time for our school day. Due to the fact that Kendra is usually up 6 or more times each night, I try to catch a little extra sleep in the mornings, and therefore allow the kids to sleep till they are ready to get up. My oldest is 16 and tends to sleep till 9:30 or so, but he is growing rapidly, and I'm okay with that. (Side note: He now wears a men's size medium shirt, and size 11.5 shoes, and is nearly 6 ft tall!) Our nurse practitioner says that our schedule is actually ideal for teens, whose body clocks naturally tend to be set to go to bed later and get up later. The younger ones often set their alarms for 6:30 or 7:00, and get up and get most of their work done before I'm even remotely coherent, LOL.The staggered schedule is great for our family, since I can help the younger ones get finished up before lunch, and they can go wear off their excess energy outside. Then, my late morning/early afternoon is free to help the older ones with their more challenging coursework (one of my older kids needs me to read much of his texts to him).
 I try to do something with the little ones while Jessica practices piano and Jeffery does independent work. Then, Jessica (4th grade) does independent work while I work with Jeffery (1st grade) and I focus on Jessica when he is all done. This may happen early or it may happen late. Just depends on the balls I have to juggle that day. :-)

Curriculum
Tonya and I both use the Bob Jones curriculum. As I mentioned, she uses the curriculum company's online teachers. I teach the material myself. I supplement it with my own Bible curriculum, P.E. at a local gym and piano lessons once my kids get in 2nd grade and vocal music with my little ones. If I remember correctly, she does violin lessons and possibly piano and choir with her school age children. (She was too busy schooling to take time to comment on this one!)

Judy has more of an eclectic approach like Jessica:

My 2nd and 5th graders love ACE, since they can work on their own and get on with their interests without too much waiting on Mom. However, I score ALL work in order to keep tabs on what they are learning, and to make sure they are understanding their PACEs. The other 3 are in grades 7, 8, and 10. They have some PACEs, some textbooks of various styles, and some reading-based subjects (PA history, primarily). I pick and choose each subject on an individual basis, based on their preferences, strengths, and weaknesses; each year may be different from the year before it, and 8th grade for Brandon was totally different than 8th grade is for Devin this year. Just another reason why I love homeschooling!
Is everything always perfect? Nah! This is how many more days than we'd like turn out:

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Or maybe that's just me? :-)


 

Thursday, March 15, 2012

DIY-FUN!

Recently I have done a few DIY projects in our home, specifically the nursery. In preparing for our little bundle of joy to arrive, we have been working on setting up her room etc. I thought I would share with you a few of those ideas, just in case you wanted to incorporate them into your home decor somewhere. They are ideas that can be adapted for use in several different rooms of your home, not just a nursery! :0)

First off, I'll share how I changed plain old outlet covers into beautiful pieces that actually MATCH the decor of the room! (the original idea for this came from Pinterest). All you need is the outlet cover, Mod Podge, a brush, and an Exacto knife.

Stage 1 of the process


Stage 2-after covering and drying you cut out the holes

Stage 3- Put up!
For this next project, I bought plain brown and pink Wall Art dots, then painted (with acrylic) dots and faces on them to look like ladybugs (to match the theme of the nursery).



Here I "made-over" an old wooden house that holds knick knacks. I had ribbon to match the decor, and hot glued it into the design pattern I wanted.

This project was probably one of the most time-consuming, however, I was happy with how it turned out! We started with plain white letters; added the ribbon where I wanted it; then painted ( 3 different colors) dots onto them!


This last one, was a simple idea. I needed curtain tie backs for her curtains but didn't want to spend my life savings.... So, I bought ribbon that coordinated with the room and curtains, and tiny stick-on hooks. After sticking the hooks into the correct place, I simply tied the ribbon and hooked it back! EASY!!


Again, any of these ideas can be adapted to whatever room your trying to "make over". Just use your imagination, and have FUN!



Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Words Fitly Spoken

"A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." Proverbs 25:11

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She was one of the sweetest little ladies I ever met. Quiet and meek, she never tried to be the center of attention; but her eyes danced and she had a mischievous grin that spoke of a fun-loving spirit. She blushed easily and we all loved to tease her, gently of course. Everybody loved Aunt Barb.

I remember when those sparkling blue eyes started to lose some of their shine, and when her smile wasn't quite as ready. She grew quieter than ever and she participated in family conversations less and less. She explained that she was having trouble with confusion. She was afraid to try to talk because she'd forget what she was saying in mid-sentence. An intelligent woman, Aunt Barb had been a teacher and it was more than frustrating for her to be unable to form her thoughts into words. She withdrew into herself.

Her confusion grew worse as Alzheimer's destroyed that sharp mind. Over the course of several years she worsened until her husband, crushed because he couldn't care for her at home any longer, had to place her in a nursing home. He visited her faithfully, every day, even when she had no idea who he was. (That's what true love is all about...but that's another post in itself....)

When Aunt Barb passed away we all hated to lose her but, in reality, we'd lost her long before the day of her death.

At her funeral we listened to the beautiful songs, kind words, and recounted memories, and we were even more grateful for the opportunity to have known this great woman. I enjoyed hearing stories of her life and learning more about this wonderful lady, but what stood out in my mind was a phrase that seemed to be spoken over and over during that memorial service.

"She never spoke an unkind word about anyone."

Never.


That statement has been made of other people, but somehow it resonated with me that day, and has echoed in my mind ever since. "She never spoke an unkind word about anyone...."   


What a convicting testimony.

There was a reason for her sweetness; for her reputation for only speaking in kindness. She was a true Christian. She lived what she professed, and everyone who knew her, even when she was so ill, knew that here was a true saint.



The Bible says:

"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building it up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." Ephesians 4:29 ESV

"The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things." Proverbs 15:28 ESV

"A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit." Proverbs 15:4 ESV

"Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips!" Psalm 141:3 ESV



Thankfully, there is hope for those of us who wish to succeed in this area. God wouldn't warn against sins of the tongue so clearly in His Word if He didn't also offer the help needed to overcome the temptation to speak in ways that we shouldn't. 


I hope that, when my life is over, they can say, "I never remember hearing her speak an unkind word about anyone." It's still possible. :)

"If someone were to pay you ten cents for every kind word you ever spoke and collect five cents for every unkind word, would you be rich or poor?"  ~Unknown








Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Homeschooling with Little Ones


Homeschooling while caring for a baby or a toddler--or perhaps several little ones--is a challenge for even the most seasoned homeschooling mother. In fact, teaching school-age children while comforting a teething baby and filling a toddler's sippy cup again can seem downright impossible.

Having survived nearly seven years of homeschooling, along with two new babies in the past four years, I'd  like to encourage you that you can homeschool successfully, even during this busy season of life. The key is finding something that works for you and your children.

1. Be flexible with your schedule.
While your local schools may start their day at 7:30 AM, remember that you can choose the starting time that is best for you. If you are up frequently in the night with a newborn, setting your alarm so you can start school "on time" just isn't practical. Likewise, if your toddler needs lunch at 11:00 AM, there is no need to endure a whiny, hungry child until noon--pause that math lesson and fix lunch.

2. Use naptime to your advantage.
If you are struggling to fit those more-involved projects into your day, take advantage of the baby's afternoon nap for uninterrupted work time. Science experiments, nature study, messy art projects--all can be accomplished with less stress during this less hectic time period.

3. Consider using independent work for some subjects.
It is very helpful if your child has at least one or two subjects that he can do on his own while you are changing the baby or starting a load of laundry. At our house, for example, I like math and language lessons to be taught directly to each child, but I am comfortable allowing them to do history (mostly) independently. I know that I am still available to follow up as I grade papers, making sure that they are understanding the material they have read.

4. Follow a lighter schedule on hectic days.
During especially busy days, such as a week of special church services, allow yourself to simplify your homeschooling schedule. Perhaps you could just do math and language arts, and skip history and science for a few days. Or maybe you could allow your school-age children to read educational books for a week, giving you a break from direct teaching and grading. Find a way to make those hectic days less stressful for everyone!

5. Find quiet entertainment for younger children.
Special coloring books, play-dough, quiet books, busy bags--anything that only comes out during school time will captivate your child and allow you to work with your older children. If you have math manipulatives that aren't a choking hazard (pattern blocks, dominoes, teaching clocks, etc.), you may find that your preschooler will be happy to work with them for quite a while.

6. Be gentle with yourself.
Remember that it is perfectly fine that you aren't accomplishing the same things that your friends are. Each family is different, and each season of life is unique. Remind yourself that tomorrow is another day, a fresh start. Do your best, and enjoy watching your children learn in the way that works best for your family.

What creative ideas do you have for homeschooling with little ones?

Monday, March 12, 2012

The Most Frugal Practice in My Kitchen

Everyone seems to be trying to save money these days. For moms with many kids and/or one income families, it is essential to cut unnecessary costs. One of the variables in a budget is food. No two household grocery budgets look alike, however almost all of us could cut costs here first in an emergency.

I will make a confession. I am not into couponing. If you get carts of groceries for pennies, then my hat is off to you. (Actually, I'm too cheap discerning to buy a hat. But you know what I mean.) That why this is the most frugal practice in my kitchen. I'd love to hear about some of yours!

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No, mine isn't couponing or even making my own bread most of the time (although that would save a lot of money....and chemicals). It's bones. Yep! I get a lot out of bones. Now before you get a mental image of my children fighting the dog for his chew toy (No dog either...again, too cheap frugal), let me explain.

When we buy our beef, I request the bones from the butcher. When I roast a chicken or turkey, I save the bones. When my mom roasts one and offers the bones to me, however, I say "No, thank you!" The bones and broth have spilled in my car on the way home too many times.


So how do bones save me money? Well, first of all, I get great nutrition and often one or two more meals out of something I would have thrown away. Secondly, I never have to buy canned broth for recipes. Or bouillon. I cannot even remember the last time I bought cream of chicken soup which used to be a staple in my pantry. Third, having the broth on hand motivates me to make healthier, more frugal meals like homemade soups and casseroles.


The process. I know a lot of you already do this and probably have a method more perfect than mine. However, enough people look at me strangely when I mention saving the bones from meat that I know you don't all do this.

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In this example, I'll tell you how to stretch a roast chicken. After feeding it to your family with some mashed potatoes and noodles (or  gravy if you don't have Pennsylvania Dutch heritage like I do), put the bones back in your roaster or crockpot. I do not have pictures of this because I really didn't think anyone wanted to look at bones. I said this was frugal not photogenic. 

 Pour any leftover broth or gravy over the bones, then cover completely with water. Turn it on low heat and leave it alone. You can add some onions and garlic and celery. It adds a delicious flavor, but it is not necessary.  If you do it in the crockpot, you can leave it overnight or longer.

What you have after this process is delicious broth. You can strain it and put it into the refrigerator. All the fat will rise to the top after being chilled. You can skim it off and, if you cooked a good chicken, you should have a gelatin-like broth.

Put it into freezer bags (or glass jars if plastic creeps you out---just make sure you leave space at the top for expansion). A sandwich bag holds about 2 cups. A quart bag holds about four cups.

After you put all the broth away in the freezer, you can pick the bones. This is admittedly not very fun. It is also something you will most assuredly do alone. This is not a kitchen chore for which I get volunteers. I can usually get a cup or two of chicken off the bones. I also freeze this for other meals like Chicken Enchiladas, Chicken Casserole or sandwiches.

The best part is, you can boil the same bones again for several more times and get even more broth! I have done this until the bones started to disintegrate, although the flavor is most rich with the first time or two of  boiling.


Why do I say this is the most frugal practice in my kitchen? If I pay $6 for a roast chicken and feed our family of 6, I have paid $1 per person for our meal. Not bad. If I boil the bones and get broth and chicken for one more meal, I have paid 50 cents a person per meal. A lot better. If I boil the bones again, while I may not have enough meat for another meal (though often I can get 3 or 4 meals out of one chicken), I have at least cut the cost to somewhere below 50 cents per person per meal.

If I got a free box of Hamburger Helper with coupons, I'd still have to buy the hamburger and it would only last my family one meal (probably one snack, the way my family eats!). So this is my brand of frugality.


Do you keep your bones? What is your most frugal kitchen tip?